Yes, you read that correctly—I said fun! And I don’t just mean the typical “we had a good time” fun. I’m talking about adventure fun! It’s about sharing experiences that ignite your passion, activities that uplift your spirits, and moments that will etch unforgettable memories of your wedding day. This isn’t just a joyous celebration; it’s about creating a truly remarkable day together.

Think about it: you spend a year (maybe two) planning your wedding day—inviting guests, coordinating with vendors, and comparing prices for food, photographers, bakers, and DJs. You choose every detail to reflect your tastes, mapping out how the day will unfold from getting ready to the final send-off.
But amidst the hustle and bustle of staying on schedule, your day can get lost in the chaos, like a regular workday. But wait—who’s paying you for this workday? No one! You are investing in a celebration with your most cherished family and friends.

So why not do something unconventional and exciting? Why not go kayaking along the beach, take a coaster down the ski hill, stop at a local brewery for a drink, enjoy a quad ride, or take a helicopter tour? And yes, why not ride the mechanical bull? There are countless fun activities you can share to kick off your marriage on the right note. (wait, did I just convince you to elope? lol)

“We are never more fully alive, more completely ourselves, or more deeply engrossed in anything than when we are playing.”

-Charles Schaefer

Why does the “most important day of your life” have to feel uptight, rushed, and overwhelming, filled with shaking hands and forced smiles out of obligation? I’m not saying that a traditional wedding is without value; if you choose that path, it’s essential to spend time with your closest family and friends. However, there’s no reason you can’t take an hour away to do something fun with just the two of you or your wedding party. Not only will your bridal party photos be unique, but everyone involved will leave feeling great. Isn’t that a memory worth cherishing?

Here are three takeaways:

Choose joy, every single day.

Big or small, this day is yours to plan. There are always ways to make it work. You might have to sacrifice something to make it happen, but don’t sacrifice making your wedding day unique and special. Take a breath throughout the day; if I’m your photographer, I’ll certainly remind you to do this. Have that drink, take that walk if you need to—no one has anywhere else to be.

Aside from having fun, this is my most common advice to clients on their day: relax. Breathe and let things unfold as they will. The timeline is a great guideline, but it’s not a do-or-die situation. Before you know it, the day will be over, life will continue, and you’ll have nothing but your feelings from that day to remember it by. And of course hopefully some outstanding photos, by me! 😛

(and you bet thats two Big Macs below)