Is a First Look For You? Let’s talk about it..

Introduction

One of the biggest decisions couples face when planning their wedding is whether to have a “first look” before the ceremony. This intimate moment can significantly impact your wedding photography and overall experience. In this blog, we’ll explore the pros and cons of a first look to help you decide if it’s the right choice for you.

What Is a First Look?

A first look is a private moment where the couple sees each other before the ceremony. Typically, a photographer captures this moment, allowing for a candid and intimate exchange. It differs from the traditional approach where the couple sees each other for the first time walking down the aisle.

Pros of a First Look

1. Intimacy and Connection

A first look allows you to have a quiet moment together before the day gets busy. This can help reduce nerves and create a deeper emotional connection. Often it reduces that “build up” of emotions and allows for a reset before going into the ceremony as you are entering more as a “team”. Sometimes this will help if one of you has high stress in crowds.

2. More Time for Photos

Scheduling a first look often means more time for couple portraits and family photos. This can lead to a more relaxed atmosphere and fewer time constraints later in the day.

3. Better Lighting Conditions

Depending on your wedding schedule, a first look can occur at a location/spot when the lighting is more favourable for photography, enhancing the quality of your images.

4. Emotional Capture

The emotions expressed during a first look can be raw and genuine, providing stunning photographs that reflect your true feelings without feeling like everyone is watching you in your most vulnerable feelings.

5. Flexibility in the Schedule

Having a first look can help streamline your timeline, allowing for a smoother transition from the ceremony to the reception.

Cons of a First Look

1. Tradition vs. Modern Approach

Some couples feel that seeing each other before the ceremony takes away from the traditional excitement of the first look at the altar.

2. Logistics and Planning

Coordinating a first look requires careful planning and may add pressure to your schedule, especially if you’re trying to fit it in with other pre-ceremony activities.

3. Different Experiences

If one partner is particularly emotional, it might create an uneven experience, with one feeling overwhelmed and the other feeling somewhat disengaged. Sometimes they can be a little awkward after, like you hug and say you look beautiful and than just move on.

A first look doesn’t have to be limited to just the couple. Sharing this special moment with family or friends can create unforgettable memories and add an extra layer of emotion to your wedding day. Whether it’s a heartfelt moment with your father, a joyous reveal with your bridesmaids, or a touching encounter with grandparents, these alternative first looks can enhance the overall experience of your celebration. Choose what resonates most with you, and enjoy every moment!

1. Father of the Bride

Why It’s Special:

The moment a bride shares with her father can be incredibly emotional and significant. It’s often a time filled with pride and love.

Tips:

Consider a private moment away from the hustle and bustle of the wedding preparations.
Capture the moment with your wedding photographer to preserve the emotion and joy.

2. Bridesmaids

Why It’s Special:

Sharing a first look with your bridesmaids can create a fun and supportive atmosphere. They’ve likely been part of your journey leading up to the big day.

Tips:

Plan a mini-reveal where they can see your dress and makeup for the first time.
Encourage reactions and laughter to capture genuine moments of joy.

3. Grandparents

Why It’s Special:

Grandparents often have a wealth of wisdom and love to share. A first look with them can be a touching tribute to your relationship with them, honouring the value they have in your life.

Tips:

Find a quiet spot where they can see you without distractions.
Capture their reactions, which can be priceless and heartwarming.

4. Siblings

Why It’s Special:

A first look with siblings can be a unique way to include them in your special day. Their support and love can be incredibly meaningful.

Tips:

Create a playful atmosphere by adding a fun twist, like a mock runway walk or “ice” them.
Capture candid moments of excitement and surprise.

5. Close Friends

Why It’s Special:

Sharing this moment with a close friend can reinforce your bond and create a lighthearted environment.

Tips:

Choose a friend who has been there throughout your journey, and let their genuine reaction shine through.
Consider doing a group first look if you have a tight-knit circle.

Conclusion

Whether a first look is a good or bad idea ultimately depends on your preferences as a couple. Typically they do not take more than 5-10 minutes to do either, it is not hard to schedule it in the timeline. It basically boils down to how traditional you want your wedding to be. If you value intimacy and want more time for photos, a first look may be perfect for you. However, if you cherish the traditional reveal at the altar, you might prefer to wait.

Consider discussing this decision with your wedding photographer, who can provide insights based on their experience. Whichever path you choose, remember that the most important thing is to enjoy your special day and celebrate your love.

As always, thank you for tuning into another “from my experience” story, if you are my client, I can’t wait to see what route you choose and always reach out if you have any questions!!